Tuesday, July 24, 2012

It’s Just Not Worth It

Last September, the Distracted Driving Legislation (Bill 16) came into effect in Alberta and at first, I think the new law really made a difference.  However, as the months passed I began to see more and more drivers using their cell phones behind the wheel again.  This morning one man’s stupidity almost changed or could have ended my life or my child(ren)’s.  

I was driving into Sherwood Park for a visit with a friend when, on a two lane road with a speed limit of 80 kph, a man in a minivan crossed the center line seconds before I passed him in the other direction.  He had his head down and was texting with both hands.  I had just enough time to swerve to the right to avoid a head on collision.  Thankfully, I reacted quickly.  Thankfully, his vehicle didn’t veer a second or two later.  Thankfully, the side road was wide enough to compensate.  Someone was watching over the three of us this morning.  The thing that upsets me the most is that he was so absorbed in his inattention that he didn’t even look up when I swerved, he was completely unaware that his vehicle almost collided with mine. 

I deserve to watch Ben and Kate grow up; to see them finish high school, to dance at their weddings, to spoil my grandchildren one day.  My children don’t deserve to die strapped into their car seats in the back of a vehicle before they have even really begun to live.  A child isn’t replaceable and neither are their mother or father.  However, the truth of the matter is, everyday someone’s life changes or ends because of someone’s stupidity and inattention behind the wheel.  No one deserves to lose someone they love that way.  So get off your phones, stop texting or eating a Big Mac or doing anything that takes your attention away from the road while you drive.  It’s just not worth it.